Of all sexual acts, the hand job can be the most painful. Anyone can do it to their partner, unlike the great, powerful blow job. Unless he is incredibly adaptable, in which case you are lucky. So, move your hands halfway around, trying to give your partner a pleasurable experience that he has mastered since he was 14. Remember that many men enjoy working with their hands, just as you undoubtedly enjoy engaging in some digital activity. The following are considerations to remember the next time you want to give your man a hand job.
Take Care of Every Inch of His Penis
Yes, the head of the penis is very sensitive. But the entire length of the penis requires attention, just as many women like to take care of the labia minora, labia majora, and the all-important clitoris. This means going beyond the archaic idea of simple masturbation. It is not easy, but there is more to it than “masturbating.” The penis has numerous nerve endings, and the woman must remember that good masturbation begins by touching the whole penis.
Make Some Little Preparation
Before you begin, keep these basics in mind. Do your man a favor and run your hands through warm water if you have been drinking frozen margaritas or playing with ice cubes all night so that his penis doesn’t think you are liquid nitrogen. Then, come up with a few extras to gradually push him toward the precipice in a pleasurable way. To tease him and offer him different tactile sensations, one sex expert recommends gently stroking and fondling. Try stroking his penis with feathers, or wrap your hands in beads and roll them between your palms and his penis as you slide them up and down.
Get Comfy
Finding a comfortable position can help you give a great hand job and avoid breaking his penis (my apologies to men whose penises have been damaged). The best position for handjobs is to sit between the recipient’s knees when he is lying on his back with his legs straight and open and yours tucked underneath. This gives you access to the entire pelvic area and allows you to make eye contact.
Take Advantage of Using Lube
On one point, at least, many sex experts agree. An ordinary hand job can be turned into an event with the help of a lubricant. The importance of lubrication cannot be overlooked. Using lubricant, you can change the speed, pressure, and friction without rubbing. I recommend using silicone lubricants such as Wicked Sensual Care Ultra, Uberlube, or Sliquid Silver. As long as you stay away from latex condoms for the rest of the night, I also like to use coconut oil if you want to switch to penetration at some point. Don’t worry. There are many types of lubricants you can choose from based on your preferences and needs. Coconut oils break down the latex of condoms, which can compromise their effectiveness.
The best lubricants in the world and expertly tested masturbation procedures are lovely. However, you are the only person who really knows how to give a good hand job. The experience will be all the hotter and more satisfying for both of you the more aroused you are. So, if you have tried the above tips and still feel pressure, talk to your partner and find a solution that works for both of you.