In current times, sexting has become a norm, especially among the younger generation. It is a way to maintain the spark of relationships when partners are away from each other.Different people have different needs of what they desire to hear while sexting. However, there are some particular things that nearly all men wish to get from the sex messages they receive. A few of such things are highlighted below.
There is nothing more of a turn-on for men than visuals. A little bit of nudity should help do the trick. The visuals can be in the form of images or videos. Start with tease shots and move all the way gradually to full body shots. Just as a precaution, consider cropping or blurring your face from the images to ensure no one will be able to identify you from them in case they get leaked online. That should be more of the case if you are not very familiar with who you are sexting. If possible, try to avoid close up shots when taking the nude pictures to ensure they do not appear more like those on science books.
Words play an essential role in creating imaginations for men. Thus, you should try to use the right words to ensure the men can imagine what is in your mind, the way you want them to. Be as elaborate as you possibly can when describing anything. Avoid feeling shy to express or ask for anything. The more open you are, the more interesting the sexting will be for the man. It is okay to ask a few questions, but keep them to a minimum. Too many questions will make it seem like the man is the only one doing all the work. He should take control, but let him feel your contribution.
Sexting does not necessarily need to be about real things that you have done or can do. It is okay to talk about your wildest desires and fantasies, even if you intend to date. Doing so will help make the conversation a lot more interesting. However, ensure that the fantasies feel real to you instead of making everything up to entertain him. That will ensure that you also enjoy the sexting.